Kissing – When was Your First Real Kiss?


Kissing is very important to me. I enjoy kissing as much as sex itself. You can tell a lot about someone by their passionate kiss with you. I once dated a guy that didn’t kiss. Let me correct that, I went out ONCE with a guy that did not kiss. He said he did not understand why anyone would want to kiss. Blowing a guy, sure no problem he loved giving and receiving. Taking a dick up the ass, again, he was totally ready. But locking lips and exchanging saliva, nope. He was not down with that. Other than that, he was a nice guy. He was not a closeted macho tough guy. He was a gym bunny, but completely out and did not hide his sexuality. He just thought kissing was a waste of time. Unfortunately for me though, that is definitely a deal breaker.

There is an old song by Betty Everett called – It’s in His Kiss- (video above). I heard this song redone several times but remember thinking that this was completely true, even as a teenager. When I came to gribs about my own sexuality, I really wanted to experience my “first kiss” with a guy. It took a couple years and a bottle of Johnny Walker Scotch Whiskey, but I finally had it happen with my best friend on my 18th birthday. It was not THE best kiss, and he claimed to not remember the night at all, but it happened and I definitely remember it. In fact I remember almost every detail, despite how much alcohol I had in me. This includes what I was wearing at the time and what we were doing that lead up to it. I also cannot drink Johnny Walker to this day because I threw up that night and I still taste it to this day. I was 18, I was an idiot.

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So, do you remember your first real kiss? Did you enjoy it? Was it awful? Was it fun? I am legitimately curious. I love hearing first kiss stories. It can be with either gender if you consider that your first real memorable kiss.

5 thoughts on “Kissing – When was Your First Real Kiss?

  1. My first real kiss was an amazing life altering experience. It was in high school and at the time I was still unsure of my sexuality. I had girl friends before and we had kissed and it was actually unpleasant. However the kiss that changed it all came in my senior year.

    This guy that was very out and open about his sexuality came up to my while I was rehearsing a monologue for drama class. We where mutual friends already so we started to chat and we ended up outside the band room on this bench in the hall way. We where sitting there and he was being very flirty, but he was always like that so I didn’t think too much of it. I have to admit thought I was getting nervous because I didn’t know what to do and he was obviously hitting on me. He put his arm around me and squeez at arm commenting on how it felt muscular and that I was really looking good. That year I really started to get fit, I was kinda fat before this. He had his arm around me and he was in close and I remember how amazing his cologne smelled and his breath was sweet like candy. He said something flirty and we each laughed and I turned to him and we just paused looking at each other, then he just pulled me in and planted his lips on mine. I instantly got semi erect, we started to make out pretty heavily at that point. His lips where amaninzgly soft and thick, he payed some instrument I forget which. The taste of his mouth was amazing, he apparently just had drank a root beer and I could still taste it on him, his hair was extremely soft because he was also a swimmer. I felt so alive as the blood rushed through the my body and my skin tingled. It was like lightning in my veins. That was the moment I think I finally realized I was totally gay. I obviously still remember that kiss to this day, the guy and I never dated or anything.

  2. I was in my late 20s and on a date with a guy who I met through work. We were in my car and I just parked it at a restaurant. I was signing to a Kylie song and turned to apologize for singing. He looked at me and pulled me in to a kiss. It was really nice but I had no idea what I was doing. Especially when he put his tongue in my mouth. I got the change to kiss him again when I dropped him off at his place. I was more relaxed so it was better. Sadly, nothing really happened with him after but I still remember that kiss.

  3. I found kissing a little bit gross the first time, but it was because I really was not attracted to the guy. When I met guys I was more attracted to, I took to it like a fish to water. Btw, have you noticed that some porn does not have kissing? Total turn off. I swear that in a large percentage of the older Falcon Studios movies, the guys did not kiss. I thought that was terrible.

  4. My first kiss was with a girl, and it happened when I was a pre-teen. My first REAL kiss–the kind that leaves your toes curling, and yes, also with a woman–came much later on, after high school.

    The first kiss that I ever had with a guy was in my mid-twenties. We were both drunk. It was pretty sloppy, and he had bad breath. Like, REALLY bad breath!

    And yet, I remember it being intense and erotic. Maybe because I’d crushed on this guy for a couple of years.

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